Why we are named as Chic Decent.

Hey, my dear. I am Ruiwen.

It's a little and common story to talk on. The time I signed up this domain was the time I and my daughter left Phnom Penh and back to Ningbo at the Covid raising period. Then I got my business license in paper at the hotel when we had our boarding days.
Before this change, I had tried ideas, a lot, to soothe my soul who was roaring to be some different being.
I am a single mother since my girl turned to her 1 year old, and then we company each other the days, and the days counting for 7 years now. It’s a sweet and fighting for “zero” stage for both of us, of her kindergarten years, and of my entrepreneurship.
I know I was not strong to make everything in place and I just feel sorry for that I could not do that everything.

A one-end solution is the most worst of our service that we did seldom or never make social or voice responses on medias or emails. That's weird. And more like a scammer's. "I don’t like making traces or spending time on social" is an excuse of my character thing; and I didn't have that much power to "smile and say hey" is another excuse of energy balance demand. I was on my own easy way to sit on solving kinds of other things, rather than interact with people, with the lest mental cost. And I had time on working to set up this store, for the first more than 15K packages, all sorted and packed and sent by myself. Working hard makes iron body and mind; actually, it's some healing, warm feelings with passions, gratitudes and a being needed.

Then what a some invisible human being did, is to arrange gifts to packages, delivered to present her gratitudes on the trust and support; if you take it as an exchange at her view, to exchange for her "peaceful" mind for the mistakes, delays, and all those kindhearted social sharings, you will not see it as a non-root thing. But, anyhow, sorry and a shame.

Now Chic Decent goes to her 4th year. And I have my team from her 3rd year, a mothers team. All of us have our kids, one or two, and we work together, then we stay with our kids with our families at free hours. I think I am partially on my way for the dream of “Better Family”, as Chic Decent is a team with mothers who working and who growing with their kids. That’s a decent way to respect our ladies' abilities and responsibilities.

I know my weaknesses and grow with my weaknesses and I am not praying for something but hold my belief “dream and pursue”, a word in Chinese “好，自为之”. Years ago, I was longing for answers of life, from books like Lean In by Sally Sanderburg, by words of leaders like Inamori Kazuo, and by the great people who lights people up.

Now, I am not looking for answers of life at that much frequency but live the life to this real world, together with you.

Chic is a Beauty; Decent as a Beauty. ♥️ Always a Beautiful Day

Ruiwen Chen, Founder of chicdecent.com

Final Draft on June 30, 2024

Ningbo, China